Someone You Should Meet

From fractured roots to a family reunion: Jewish identity across five generations.
by
Debra Chasnoff
Year Released
2024
Film Length(s)
30 mins
Closed captioning available
Remote video URL

Introduction

A once-in-a-lifetime family reunion unfolds when two filmmakers discover they are cousins through their great-grandparents. Spanning six generations, Someone You Should Meet is a shared journey to unearth fractured family roots and a dynamic sense of Jewish identity. In the process, old wounds surface, and a sense of belonging is discovered.

Synopsis

A once-in-a-lifetime family reunion unfolds when two filmmakers discover they are cousins through their great-grandparents. Spanning six generations, Someone You Should Meet is a shared journey to unearth fractured family roots and a dynamic sense of Jewish identity.

As descendants gather to answer fundamental questions — How did we get here? How has our family changed? — old wounds surface, backstories both painful and profound come to light, and the meaning of family is argued. Featuring intimate cinéma vérité footage, probing interviews, and activities that put people in conversation by generation, branch, shared experiences and life choices, Someone You Should Meet offers a primer on how to throw a memorable family reunion. But, ultimately, it is a story of the power of belonging.

Awards and Screenings

Director Commentary

When Tom Chestnut started looking into his genealogy, he was surprised to learn that his grandfather had three brothers and a sister. Digging deeper, he uncovered a large family tree, the branches of which had no connection to each other, except that they all shared the same ancestors, Judith and Machman Chasanoff, who immigrated to the United States from what is now Ukraine in the early 1900s to escape the Russian pogroms and conscription.

Tom's research led him to me, his second cousin and a documentary filmmaker living in Chicago, who at the time was running a social justice nonprofit media organization focused on youth and bias issues. It also led him to Debra (Chas) Chasnoff, another second cousin from a different branch and another documentary filmmaker living in San Francisco and running a social justice nonprofit media organization focused on youth and bias issues!

"I think there is someone you should meet," he said with a wink to each of us.

And so, we did. Intrigued that we had so much in common, we began a conversation to discover what other commonalities might exist in the extended Chasanoff clan. Who are the "Chasanoffs" today? How did we get so disconnected from each other? How have our Jewish identity, values and cultural practices changed over the past century?

We decided to bring the extended family together to answer these questions and many more. For the first time since Judith and Machman brought their children across the Atlantic on a steamer ship, more than 125 members of the extended family met each other at a weekend gathering in the Catskills in June 2016. This event forms the basis of a documentary that explores some of the psychological, religious, and political complexities of a fractured family tree.

Features and Languages

Film Features

  • Closed Captioning
  • Director's Commentary
  • Subtitles

Film/Audio Languages

  • English

Subtitle/Caption Languages

  • English

Promotional Material

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